Inventory

One of the greatest things I have learned in my recovery is how to analyze my behavior, and try to work on my defects. I have accepted that there are a lot of flaws in my character. I am stubborn, I don't have the best communication skills, and sometimes I can cop an attitude with people. I try hard to work on these things. The best thing I can do is look at my actions, and try better the next day.

Here's a good example. Being that Sober Nation is run by me and one of my best friends, it can be difficult to work with a close friend, but we try our best. Point is we got in a bit of an argument last night. It was a healthy discussion, and we actually sorted some things out. In the argument, I snapped a bit, and my temper got the best of me. The difference is that in my recovery, I can look back at the mistakes I made, and make amends for them. Not that I needed to give a formal apology, but I felt I needed to call my partner and at least say that I recognized the wrongs in my behavior and actions. You live and you learn.

This is all part of the culture we are trying to instill. If you make a mistake, its not big deal. Recognize where you were at fault, and try to rectify it. Of course we can't be perfect, we are human. Point is we need to continue to grow.